A Fill out for Woman´s (Man´s probably too if want)

You crossed a line, Chai, when you implied violence to my genitals. Yes, this is a thread discussing fantasy sexual violence. But you are the first person to direct the sexual violence toward another Able2Know member.

I responded in a joking way... but let's be clear. Your behavior was really inappropriate. I questioned your post, but I implied no threat to you (other than disagreeing with you). Nor have I ever made any sexual comments about you or your genitalia. In fact, I can't remember anyone making such a comment about another members genitals.

Don't get me wrong, I can take it... but I am going to point out the hypocrisy.

The question is what are you getting out of this. You chose to read this thread. You pushed the "reply" button and then you typed a response. And then you hit send. There is no reason that you had to participate in this thread at all. And, yet you choose to escalate it. Clearly you are getting something out of this.

Just for the record, I took the original post as a harmless joke. Probably in bad taste, but that is often the nature of jokes.

I don't think it's an S&M thread. But I also don't get the vehement disagreement that people are expressing towards a bad joke.

So I guess I'm kind of disagreeing with everyone here.

I believe you misunderstood her intent. I think she only made the "injury to genitals" comment as a sarcastic reference to the original post.

Grow up you 🔔🔚

Is this a pun? I don't get the joke.

OK I get it now. You put pictures of a "bell" and "end" to refer to "bell-end". This turns out to be vulgar slang refer to the glans (i.e. the end of the penis). This is not a term with which I am familiar; it isn't used by Americans... at least of my generation. But I appreciate the chance to learn something new. But it raises some questions.

1) Both Lulu and Chai seem to want to talk about my genitals. Should I be flattered?

2) My little embarrassing row with Chai was over weeks ago. I don't mind rolling around in the mud with anyone who wants to dive in with me (I am a troll after all) , but even I was ready to let this one go. What kind of person would come uninvited to drudge this up again?

3) The number of women who are willing to use sexual terms to refer to men in an internet debate is much higher than people admit (and Pew Research supports this). I don't think I would ever use a sexual term to refer to a woman, even when I disagree with her.

Many people would consider this a form of sexual harassment, at least if the target was female. This is another example where feminism doesn't mean equality.

So Lulu, if you really want to jump into the mud and roll around with me, I am all for it. It will be consensual, and if I didn't enjoy it I would just say "no". But be aware... I take equality seriously.