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The anti-gay marriage movement IS homophobic

 
 
Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 01:55 pm
Thomas wrote:
Foxfyre wrote:
So Debra, I'll ask you the same question Cyclop refused to answer. If Inhofe had said that he was proud his family had been able to weather divorces and had many homosexuals, would that be a slam against happily married people or straight people? If not, why then would the reverse automatically be so?

If he said it in the process of arguing for a law that outlawed straight marriage and made frequent divorces compulsory -- absolutely!

(That's just my opinion of course. I can't speak for Debra.)


I accept your answer and thank you for it. However, if you cannot brag on your family or anything else without it being construed that you are bashing somebody or something else, there won't be too much positive reinforcement anywhere will there? As I think its great that people, straight or gay, rejoice in who or what they are, I guess I'm just going to have to be bigoted.
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dyslexia
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:19 pm
Martyr s.o.p.
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:34 pm
Fox, I'm going to have to call bullsh*t on you yet again. I did answer your question.

Here's Thomas' answer, which you said you appreciated:

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If he said it in the process of arguing for a law that outlawed straight marriage and made frequent divorces compulsory -- absolutely!


Here was my answer to the same question:

Quote:

That depends - is he saying it during a speech in which he is attempting to deny rights to straights or divorcees? In which case yes, he would be putting down the people he was trying to deny rights to.


This is essentially the exact same answer, worded differently, yet you claimed mine wasn't an answer and Thomas' was an answer.

Please cease claiming I didn't answer your question immediately, because it is quite obvious that I did.

Cycloptichorn
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:36 pm
Cycloptichorn wrote:
Fox, I'm going to have to call bullsh*t on you yet again. I did answer your question.

Here's Thomas' answer, which you said you appreciated:

Quote:
If he said it in the process of arguing for a law that outlawed straight marriage and made frequent divorces compulsory -- absolutely!


Here was my answer to the same question:

Quote:

That depends - is he saying it during a speech in which he is attempting to deny rights to straights or divorcees? In which case yes, he would be putting down the people he was trying to deny rights to.


This is essentially the exact same answer, worded differently, yet you claimed mine wasn't an answer and Thomas' was an answer.

Please cease claiming I didn't answer your question immediately, because it is quite obvious that I did.

Cycloptichorn


Sweetie, if you think that is the 'exact same answer', I think you need a different university. But you're right. I should have required Thomas answer the follow up question, and I apologize for that.

The follow up was that you have to take the statement at face value without any other considerations or 'if's'
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:38 pm
Why don't you show me how the answers are different, eh?

And, by the way, you claimed I didn't answer at all, when it is quite obvious that I did answer. Are you willing to now admit that I did answer your question?

Your mincing of words is f*cking ridiculous. And don't call me sweetie.

Cycloptichorn
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:41 pm
Foxfyre wrote:

Sweetie, if you think that is the 'exact same answer', I think you need a different university.


When you read Cycloptichorn's response (not suggesting, you should go to a better elementary school), you would notice that itwas "essentially the same answer").

And "if" and "it depends" mean here essentially the same - but since English is not my native language and this might only be in e.g. French and German ...
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:41 pm
Okay. I overstepped by assuming you are sweet. I apologize for that too.

But you still haven't answered the question. You've rewritten the premise of it and answered that. But you didn't answer the question.
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:44 pm
Shrug. All answers now have to have no conditions attached to them? What kind of black-and-white world do you live in?

You see, the original quote wasn't delivered without context; it was given in context, as a part of a speech intended to show why gays should have rights denied to them in the constitution.

Therefore, there is no reason to believe that anyone else would not have the context of their speech known to the answerer of the question either.

Cycloptichorn
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:48 pm
Cycloptichorn wrote:
Shrug. All answers now have to have no conditions attached to them? What kind of black-and-white world do you live in?

You see, the original quote wasn't delivered without context; it was given in context, as a part of a speech intended to show why gays should have rights denied to them in the constitution.

Therefore, there is no reason to believe that anyone else would not have the context of their speech known to the answerer of the question either.

Cycloptichorn


No the original statement was strictly a statement of being proud of the values inherent in a man's family. It was qualified by an inferred opinion that his family demonstrated what a strong family looked like and he further qualified it that this probably made his point of view prejudicial on this particular issue.

Where I disagree with Thomas is that being proud of who and what you are is not necessarily a put down of people who are different.

Where I disagree with you is that I can't find anything in any of Inhofe's statements that suggest he is interested in denying anybody any rights. He is interested in preserving traditional marriage which he sees as an important American value. It cannot be extrapolated into anything else by anything he said in that speech.

He may be a bigot. He may not be a bigot. And you cannot determine that from the speech he gave.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:52 pm
Addendum: If you are glad you are tall, are you denigrating short people? If you are glad you are male or female, are you putting down the other sex? If you are glad you are healthy, are you insulting sick people? If you are glad you are straight, is that automatically a condemnation of homosexuality?

Or is an unsubstantiated inference of a person's intent in such matters more evidence of prejudice and bigotry than anything that person said?
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Cycloptichorn
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 02:57 pm
I was going to delete this until I read your last post, Fox:

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Or is an unsubstantiated inference of a person's intent in such matters more evidence of prejudice and bigotry than anything that person said?


You may or may not be a fool, but it is impossible to tell by the things you write in this thread, Fox; though an intelligent person can make a pretty good guess given the overwhelming evidence you've provided.

It's really incredible; you are willing to mince any words, take on any argument, and forgive anything said by a politician you support, and you don't care how wrong you are proven, ever; you just have to have the last word, always.

Arguing with you on any subject is like punching a pillow; you never get anywhere, no matter how many jabs or right crosses ya land. For example, you know I answered your question; you just couldn't admit it if you tried. You are incapable of doing so.

You defend bigots, and are probably a bigot yourself. It is a waste of my time to talk with you any further, and so I am done.

But I will add for the record that this is something like the fourth time that you have been proven completely wrong on a topic, and refused to back down even when all the evidence shows that you are incorrect. And it isn't just me who believes this, but many on this site. You really should try and do better, but I know you won't.

And you're right, I'm no sweeter than you are, sweetie.

Cycloptichorn
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Setanta
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:00 pm
If someone asserts that one is proud of being tall, in the course of a speech explaining why one is voting for legislation aimed at circumscribing the rights of short people, than one is being a bigot.

If one asserts that one is proud of being female, in the course of a speech explaining why one is voting for legislation aimed at circumscribing the rights of men, than one is being a bigot.

If one asserts that one is proud of being healthy, in the course of a speech explaining why one is voting for legislation aimed at circumscribing the rights of sick people, one is being a bigot.

If one asserts that one is proud of being straight, in the course of a speech explaining why one is voting for legislation to circumscribe the rights of homosexuals, one is being a bigot.

After all of your whining about context before the complete text of his remarks was made available, it is extraordinarily hypocritical of your to now ignore in a pigheaded manner the context of his remarks, which weren't about what he was glad of, but what he was proud of.

Answers-dot-com wrote:
bigĀ·ot (bĭg'ət) n.

One who is strongly partial to one's own group, religion, race, or politics and is intolerant of those who differ.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:14 pm
There is no evidence in that speech that Inhofe is intolerant of anybody. He was arguing for preservation of traditional marriage and nothing more. If you assume his arguing for the amendment is intolerance of gay people, then in fairness you have to assume that arguing against the amendment is intolerance of the traditional family. Both are absurd.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:16 pm
Cycloptichorn wrote:
I was going to delete this until I read your last post, Fox:

Quote:
Or is an unsubstantiated inference of a person's intent in such matters more evidence of prejudice and bigotry than anything that person said?


You may or may not be a fool, but it is impossible to tell by the things you write in this thread, Fox; though an intelligent person can make a pretty good guess given the overwhelming evidence you've provided.

It's really incredible; you are willing to mince any words, take on any argument, and forgive anything said by a politician you support, and you don't care how wrong you are proven, ever; you just have to have the last word, always.

Arguing with you on any subject is like punching a pillow; you never get anywhere, no matter how many jabs or right crosses ya land. For example, you know I answered your question; you just couldn't admit it if you tried. You are incapable of doing so.

You defend bigots, and are probably a bigot yourself. It is a waste of my time to talk with you any further, and so I am done.

But I will add for the record that this is something like the fourth time that you have been proven completely wrong on a topic, and refused to back down even when all the evidence shows that you are incorrect. And it isn't just me who believes this, but many on this site. You really should try and do better, but I know you won't.

And you're right, I'm no sweeter than you are, sweetie.

Cycloptichorn


I'm not the one adding words to Inhof's statement or inferring from it what was not said or implied. You are. So nobody is 'mincing words' here but you. And I don't even have to be personally insulting to say so.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:19 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
There is no evidence in that speech that Inhofe is intolerant of anybody. He was arguing for preservation of traditional marriage and nothing more. If you assume his arguing for the amendment is intolerance of gay people, then in fairness you have to assume that arguing against the amendment is intolerance of the traditional family. Both are absurd.


What is absurd is the inferential assumption in this drivel that homosexual marriage threatens traditional families--an assumption for which there is no basis.
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:27 pm
Setanta wrote:
Foxfyre wrote:
There is no evidence in that speech that Inhofe is intolerant of anybody. He was arguing for preservation of traditional marriage and nothing more. If you assume his arguing for the amendment is intolerance of gay people, then in fairness you have to assume that arguing against the amendment is intolerance of the traditional family. Both are absurd.


What is absurd is the inferential assumption in this drivel that homosexual marriage threatens traditional families--an assumption for which there is no basis.


Perhaps, but no such inference has been made by Inhofe or anybody else. The statement that has some panties in a wad here is that Inhofe bragged on the values that he appreciated in his strong family. That's all he did. All the other stuff people are inferring from that statement and there is no basis from which to make such inferences.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:34 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
The statement that has some panties in a wad here is that Inhofe bragged on the values that he appreciated in his strong family.


And from where did you get that "his strong family"?

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I am really proud to say in the recorded history of our family, we have never had a divorce or any kind of a homosexual relationship.
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dyslexia
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:35 pm
Big wings
And small waters
Carry me back home
Small minds
Stand protected under bigot sunshine
I'm not alone
But I'm far from home
You can never go home again
You can never go home again
Main street
Standing naked on the Fourth of July
Down stream
All the maniacs on my face they spy
I'm not alone
But I'm far from home
You can never go home again
You can never go home again
You can never act the way that you did back then
I'm not alone
But I'm far from home
You can never go home again
You can never go home again
You can never act the way that you did back then
You can never act the way that you did back then
When you were just a little boy
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Foxfyre
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:35 pm
Walter Hinteler wrote:
Foxfyre wrote:
The statement that has some panties in a wad here is that Inhofe bragged on the values that he appreciated in his strong family.


And from where did you get that "his strong family"?

Quote:
I am really proud to say in the recorded history of our family, we have never had a divorce or any kind of a homosexual relationship.



Read the rest of the speech Walter. He gets to it.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Fri 9 Jun, 2006 03:36 pm
Foxfyre wrote:
Setanta wrote:
Foxfyre wrote:
There is no evidence in that speech that Inhofe is intolerant of anybody. He was arguing for preservation of traditional marriage and nothing more. If you assume his arguing for the amendment is intolerance of gay people, then in fairness you have to assume that arguing against the amendment is intolerance of the traditional family. Both are absurd.


What is absurd is the inferential assumption in this drivel that homosexual marriage threatens traditional families--an assumption for which there is no basis.


Perhaps, but no such inference has been made by Inhofe or anybody else. The statement that has some panties in a wad here is that Inhofe bragged on the values that he appreciated in his strong family. That's all he did. All the other stuff people are inferring from that statement and there is no basis from which to make such inferences.


The inference was drawn by you when you wrote: . . . then in fairness you have to assume that arguing against the admendment is intolerance of the traditional family. How does argueing against the amendment in any way affect traditional families? Unless, of course, you assert, as you have done before, that gay marriage threatens other marriages.
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