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Wed 26 Apr, 2017 09:08 am
We have been in relationship for 7 years now. He added girls on FB which have almost nude DP in the 3rd month after he proposed me. He hided that account from me, i still dont know its password after asking for 10000 times. Now after 7 years he again added girls of his city and then started adding porn /adults girls pages on instagram. He uses Badoo which is a dating site and writes single there.
He is loyal,loves me a lot ,he dont talk to other girls, he cant even leave me despite of our religious issues and he thinks we cant marry. So hes somehow directed away from me coz he wants to leave me but i dont let him go. So he's still commited to me but looks at other girls on social media from first day. I dont understand WHY!
I have gone crazy thinking why is that ..what has made him like this. I am pretty but my body is not perfect like those models.
Please PLEASE HELP GUYS, tell me your thinking. why do you do this despite of having a girl with you.
P.s Its long distance relationship though, he visits me once in a year.
@sam140,
Sam,
You have been in a long distance relationship with this man who says he can't marry you and who you see once a year? I don't think you're in a relationship (at least not any kind that I've ever heard of).
As far as men looking at girls pictures, I don't think it's very unusual. Just looking at pictures isn't infidelity. Chatting with them on social media however is a step toward infidelity. Good luck.
@sam140,
sam140 wrote:
Please PLEASE HELP GUYS, tell me your thinking. why do you do this despite of having a girl with you.
P.s Its long distance relationship though, he visits me once in a year.
I wasn't sure what the problem really would be until you said that last part. Now it makes sense.
Are you crazy? How can you expect a young guy to stay interested in you when he only sees you once a year? I don't blame him at all for his actions now it makes perfect sense.