Portal Star wrote:
This makes a lot of sense, in terms of what I said earlier, but I'd still feel false. Religion without god is like dancing with no music. What's the point?
It's really about you and what you get out of it. If you get something out of it, why not do it? Not everyone approaches Judaism the same way, or for the same reasons, even among Orthodox Jews. Everyone's looking for something different, but we still form a community out of it. If it makes you happy to practice a particular observance or go to shul once in a while, why not? It's not going to hurt you.
Quote:Actually, I have experienced plenty of trouble related to it. It was only occasional when I lived up north - people telling me to repent, that jews killed jesus, or their parents wanting them to dump me. (Or the more subtle, constant invitation/forcing to attend church and church lock-ins.)
But here in Texas I never even mention my roots. I used to get beat up for it in summer camp in a bad part of San Antonio, and now even in the most liberal part of texas, the Christian majority don't like Jews. I hear people telling Jew jokes (mostly about how jews are stingy) or using "jew" as a word for a means of price lowering.
My view is this: There are two things to watch out for. The first is being pushed into being something we don't want to be because of the situation around us and the second is being pushed out of being something we want to be because of the situation around us. There are Jews doing both of these things. I don't care for either. It's really about what makes you happy. Joseph Campbell said it: "Follow your bliss."
Quote:Also, many contemporary jews (such as my mother) cling to these stereotypes as a means of uniting themselves, further perpetuating the negative perception. (My mother insists on bargaining down in the most ridiculous of places, like asking to use five of what is clearly a one only coupon, and then blaming it on being Jewish - instead of being plain rude.)
I know there are people in the Jewish community who act that way. I don't see it so much. I really don't agree that many Jews do that. Maybe in a younger congregation you'd see less of that.
Quote:As for Jews for Jesus, there's a word for that. In fact two. Christian. And also, Denial.
One more: wolf-in-sheep's-clothing.
Quote: But it's a good example of how Judaism is very much a culture - one that converting jews have trouble parting with when they convert to Christianity.
I disagree. Judaism is a tribal religion. Like being Sioux Indian. It's harder to leave a tribal religion than a faith, regardless what someone believes.
Quote:Why is it a persecution? Why is it perpetuated? Because it is not the predominant religion (since christianity and islam) and both see Jews as people unaccepting of the most important part of their religion - the messiah. Some even say that the jews killed Jesus, therefore Jews are evil, and many disagree with the Israelites policy on the middle east conflict, and tie that discontent in with all followers of Judaism.
Yes, and on top of that the Christian scriptures paint a horrible picture of Jews. Also, the fact that we continued to be after Jesus came was an affront to the Christian religion. There are Christian arguements for why Judaism still exists, but that is how it has at times been viewed. It's funny because I think many Jews disagree with Israel's policies anyway.
Quote:On the opposite side of things, the Jewish people always assumed I wasn't jewish, because my family is from Russia and are light skinned. I'm half Russian jew, and forty percent English and the rest Scotch and Cherokee. (Couple that in with a Japanese name and culture and you have confusing ethnic roots.)
How does that make being Jewish difficult for you? Judaism is not defined by a person's appearance. In America we've got a lot people from Eastern Europe but in Israel there is much more ethnic diversity. Are you saying this makes it easier to stop being Jewish?
Quote: Not to mention that most Jews are as liberal politically as you can get, while I'm a libertarian.
I knew a libertarian Jew. He was an ex-hippy. He was a friend of my parents and I think he was president for a while a their shul.
Quote:I think you are taking a personal general spiritual/philisophical methodology and superimposing concepts of Judaism over it.
I think you're just looking at Judaism as too rigid of a system. It's actually very loose and the Orthodox have only begun to get more rigid in their beliefs over the past few hundred years. If you listen to the Orthodox saying that their way is Judaism, well they're wrong. 1000 years ago Judaism was different than the way they live it. It can change again. Did you know that the mechitza, the divider, was originally only used for one holiday because there was a singles mixer after? But a fence was added to protect the Torah. Orthodoxy itself is a reaction to the modern world, just as much as Reform Judaism is.
Quote: When it comes down to it, aren't most people religious because that was the way they were brought up? Not because it's right or wrong, but because it's a group where you are comfortable?
I never said it's right or wrong. I said it's a way to attain spirituality and some other benefits as well. If a person grew up in the jungle, was raised by gators, they'd never develop reading or writing or speaking skills like you and I have. It's a function that has to be taught. Sure someone could discover a path to spirituality. There are also many paths that already exist, and you've been conditioned to have a predilection towards a path with a particular flavor, if you take one at all. You could always find another path, but it would mean rejecting something that's written inside your skull. I just read Jew in the Lotus and it seems like JUBUs have a hard time letting go. They all deal with it differently.
Quote:And, if you don't mind my asking, are you a Rabbi? You sound like a reformed rabbi.
No no no. If I was a rabbi I would end each post with Rabbi Benjamin Dauer just to impress people with my level of expertise. I'm just a nosy, opinionated Yid beginning my 4 year wandering at an inter-denominational Jewish College. UMass just didn't have any Judaic Studies courses to offer. I don't know how Reform I sound. I think many liberal Jews sound similar; recon, reform, renewal, liberal conservative. I'm more about Renewal, I think, in that I see beauty in all of the movements and try to draw inspiration from each. I also go to a Renewal shul.
Quote:Oh, side note, I really miss traditional Hasidic jewish music. I love the F sharps and the quirky pace changes, and the beautifully sad classic guitar. Slowly, like cancer, all the synogogues got organs, and their songs changed from minor to major. I swear, in a few years the hora is going to sound like "Ave Maria."
I know what you mean. That's why I try not to go near Reform or Conservative synagogues. They're like mainstream music. I like the Havurah movement and the Jewish Renewal movement. They're much truer to Jewish-sounding prayer. Here, this might interest you:
http://www.sixthirteen.org/audio/
The stuff on top is all interpretive but then they have kabbalat shabbat melodies and some niggunim. But this page is entirely liturgical melodies, much of it Carlebachian but with other stuff as well, many versions even of just one prayer -- 14 lecha dodis:
http://www.sixthirteen.org/kolzimrah/resources/
(I am not affiliated with them in any way, just happen to have the link)
Dauer