Ajini@NL wrote:I am Proud to be Dutch Speaker.....
No matter what you guys...saying..But dutch people are just wonderful....friendly and has a great attitude.I am not saying because i have been lived tehre many years..just because.....its always true..when native ppl talk about stuff thats been true...
I just returned from spending Easter break in the Netherlands. We stayed in Wassenaar, a small village on the coast and spent most of our days in Amsterdam. I loved it. I was impressed by many things, but two stick out:
1) the people, in my opinion were so healthy-looking and generally good-looking. I found the men particularly handsome - I'm a woman- but I also took note that the women were pretty. I think it has something to do with all that bicycle riding and the wind - I noticed a lot of beautiful rosy complexions.
2) Everyone was willing and able to communicate with us in fluent English. They put me (an educated American) to shame - as most people in all the other countries I've visited do - because I can only communicate fluently in English. (I can get by in somewhat broken French).
I'm an American living in England. I've been here seven months now and feel totally comfortable, but at first it was difficult for me to feel able to be myself. I think if you think of yourself as an outsider in a culture, you will act accordingly, and unconsciously communicate some defensiveness that might be construed as unfriendliness. When I allowed myself to just relax and be myself (not worrying about being thought of as a loud, arrogant, American) I began making friends. I don't know if Amethyst is still around on the forum or even still in the Netherlands, but just in case....