I find it quite hypocritical that some people on this forum refuse to learn the language of the country they are studying in (because Dutch is such an insignificant language)
It sure is, you should consider giving it up, using something else, perhaps English.
but they expect the natives to always speak English
English is the language of the global elite, like French used to be. If you want to do anything then you need to learn it. These are the facts of life. So stop sniveling.