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Boyfriend says I need to gain weight?

 
 
Reply Tue 5 Apr, 2016 11:16 pm
I'm a little confused regarding the fact that my significant other recently told me I need to gain weight...why would he tell me this???
 
jespah
 
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Reply Wed 6 Apr, 2016 08:09 am
@ntaylor0568,
Because he's a jerk.

You get to decide on your body. He does not.
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Fri 8 Apr, 2016 10:25 am
@ntaylor0568,
Tell him to purchase magnifying lens.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 8 Apr, 2016 12:03 pm
@ntaylor0568,
Are you anorexic or bulimic? He might mean his comment for your own good, not to boss you around.

I'll add that the words "you should" or " you need to" are often ill-advised.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sat 9 Apr, 2016 06:40 am
Maybe its his fat head that makes you look too small in comparison.
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sunnyy
 
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Reply Tue 4 Oct, 2016 02:47 am
@ntaylor0568,
you eat protin products...
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Candlelight8
 
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Reply Mon 17 Oct, 2016 11:49 pm
@ntaylor0568,
Are you healthy? Are you a normal weight for someone of your gender and height? If you answered yes to both of these and are being honest with yourself you don't need to gain weight. If your not healthy ask a doctor if you need to gain weight. The question is, does he make this statement for your benefit or not? Anything is possible. He may want you to get fat so you won't leaver or dump him. People often do things for bizarre or venial reasons. You and your doctor decide. "Don't go changing to try and please me" or him. Billy Joel Reference. Candlelight8
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huho426
 
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Reply Wed 26 Oct, 2016 07:32 pm
Just eat...eat and eat.
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roger
 
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Reply Wed 26 Oct, 2016 09:33 pm
@ossobuco,
I have noticed that when most people say "you need" they really mean "I need".
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Thu 27 Oct, 2016 06:34 am
@roger,
Best answer!
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hcavictoriabc
 
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Reply Fri 24 Feb, 2017 03:51 am
@ntaylor0568,
Why Boyfrnds Say. Why do u Not say I Gain Weight ?
and Every Boyfrnd Say to Girl Please Loss The Weight
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AnzhelaDvorkina
 
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Reply Mon 24 Apr, 2017 05:25 am
@ntaylor0568,
If you are happy where you are with your weight, then don't change a thing. Changing your body for someone other than yourself can only lead to more problems.
chirchri
 
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Reply Fri 5 May, 2017 01:28 am
@AnzhelaDvorkina,
Don't agree more
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Nishatsumon
 
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Reply Thu 18 May, 2017 11:50 pm
You eat protein product .just eat and eat................
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