My boyfriend is thinner than me?

Reply Sun 10 Jan, 2016 12:42 pm
My boyfriend and I are at the same age but I am fatter than him . Once he was playing football (he adores football) and gave me his jacket I wanted to know where did he bought it from so I looked and I found out he wear size S (small) I felt so depressed because I wear XL ( extra large) . What should I do I feel like people make fun of us because we are different. But I really love him and I want to change .
Reply Sun 10 Jan, 2016 12:43 pm
@Aya dh ,
I have been married for over 23 years, and have known my husband for a total of over 27 years.

He has almost always been thinner than I am.

It. Does. Not. Matter.
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Reply Sun 10 Jan, 2016 12:50 pm
Twenty years ago, i weighed considerably less than i do now, and wore much slimmer jeans. I am so mortified--i won't go out in public with myself because i am so mortified. I feel like everyone is pitying me.
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Reply Mon 11 Jan, 2016 08:17 am
@Aya dh ,
People fall for all different types of other people. My son is thin and his fiancee probably outweighs him by 80 pounds. Does not seem to bother my son in the least. Nor should it. He loves the person.

Your boyfriend might be the same weigh. He cares for you. The whole person, not just the packaging you currently come in. Be happy he is not superficial. And if it bothers you that much, change your eating habits/life style with the goal of losing some weight. But really, unless your weight is causing you health issues, if you are happy and he is happy, what is the problem?

(Note: I am not suggesting you make any life-style changes for anyone other than yourself. Changing to simply make someone else happy is not a good pattern for a relationship.)
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Reply Wed 14 Jun, 2017 08:32 pm
He won't take such trifles to heart. Just be yourself.
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