@shadowfel,
I've been peripherally involved with a difficult case in my extended family, but I'm no expert re the police since that didn't come up in our situation.
Maybe the police don't know enough to put out a warrant.
You are the one who seems to have done a lot of research and knows things and needs to be listened to.
Others who know more on a2k will likely answer.
In the meantime, who is saying it's your own fault?
Who are you asking "who are you talking to?"
This is confusing. Maybe someone posted and then deleted the post?
The rabbit comment is that Jespah and I both have rabbits in our present avatars.