@layman,
I head down to Cape Canaveral to watch a rocket get blasted into space. I see the ignition and the ship starts heading toward the moon.
Or does it? SR would say no, it doesn't, from it's "frame of reference." What evidently happens is that, when ignited, the fuel in the spaceship pushed the earth away from it, while it remains motionless. At that same instant, the moon starts moving toward the spaceship.
Wanna believe that? Help yourself.
I do think you have conceded that my act of "positing" that a spaceship is motionless does not make it STOP as a matter of physical reality.
Of course, according to the astronaut on the rocked, at that same time, the clocks slowed down on the earth and on the moon. And here I always thought that astronauts had at least a modicum of intelligence. Go figure.
Being the dumbass that I am, if I was that astronaut. I would stupidly say: "Hey, I'm moving. That means MY clock has slowed down, not those on earth." Einstein would certainly not recruit me to use the Lorentz transformations "properly," eh?