@maxdancona,
Max, I do understand the delema with his apparent ignorance and bullying. I sympathize with the position that puts you in personally. I do understand that they are personal attacks, and that's just fine. All he is really doing is showing his own ignorance and hard heart to the world. And apparently that is a very easy switch to flip for him! My oh my. I have yet to see a "them", and offer everyone my respect until they give me a reason to take it away.
Believe me, he lost my respect almost before he even had it. I cannot take anything he says seriously at this point. However, that does not give me, you or anyone else the right to be disrespectful. . Let me share a little personal insight with you. When things like this happen in life we have three choices. Respond, React, and or ignore.
Reacting will get you nothing more that further sucked into whatever little game he is playing here. Believe me, he loves that. But if you just respond or ignore, it takes the power of control he is trying to gain by manipulating you emotionally away from him. Just let it go. Walk away. He's some guy, hiding behind his computer calling you names. Bet he wouldn't have the balls to say even half that stuff in person. For all we know he's some midget, sitting on his cushions, peering angrily at his computer screen, trying to prove to the world he doesn't have short mans syndrome.
Not saying he is, but considering that sure makes me laugh and then I move on. It is not worth the time or energy you are even spending on being upset about it. As far as I am concerned treating anyone this way is wrong. Period. But its his loss, not mine.