@cicerone imposter,
cicerone imposter wrote:
We can only rely on our personal perception about reality.
I'm going to be 77 years old in July, and a friend and I are celebrating a combined party at a golf club to invite mutual friends and family. We met the owner last Friday to discuss our plans, and I'm pretty sure those events are "real."
My wife and I are leaving for a National Parks tour tomorrow for 18-days, and I'm sure that's real too!
Not much in my life that doesn't seem real, but who knows? I may be fooling myself.
When you hear the term, live is an illusion or that there is non-self. It isn't talking about your life not existing. It does exist. The reason it is confusing is because of how the terms are being used. In english we don't have very good words to describe what the buddha meant by these things. It took me a long time to understand exactly what he meant, and I have now a simple way of explaining it.
The concept of non self is meant to mean we don't have a permenant thing that we are refering to when we talk about ourselves. The actual reaity is we are like a stream of experiences that is forever changing. However; since we have awareness we tend to view ourselves as being substantual or even unchanging entities. Since we are in a constant state of change, it would be more accurate to say there is no self because how can you point to something which is constantly changing and solidify it into something?
It is like every day objects. Sure they currently are in their states but those states could change at any moment. If a cup breaks and shatters on the floor, do you still refer to it as a cup? No, because it has changed states. Sure you could try to put it back together but it really isn't the same cup. Not only that but what were the materials it was made from, where did they come from? If it was glass more than likely it was some sand somewhere and before that some rock and before that?
This is why the cup is considered to be an illusion since it is in all reality not a cup. Only at a moment is it a cup, and then later something else, and yet later something else. Everything in our existence has this nature and its called non-self. It really has no identity because to identify it is to attempt to solidify the object into something which in fact is not accurate.
Our brains and our bodies and even our minds are the exact same way. We are not the same people we were at age five. We are not even the same people we were two days ago. The only thing that bridges us, is memory and it is this memory that causes us to become attached to the identity of our selves. Without this memory we actually would exist in a constant state of present moment as experiences streamed in we would just live in the present moment. Just like everything else does. We are an exception because we attach to these identities and want to hold onto the present moment and refuse to let it go.