@Ragman,
Ragman wrote:Is your husband out of the asylum on a weekend pass?
This. The strings were purchased as requested, and delivered to his house, to a close family member. The boyfriend had every reason to expect that the daughter would pass the strings on to her father or if they were for her own guitar, that she would keep them and tell her father that they were received. The boyfriend acted in good faith and in fact performed a useful service, in respect of which the father is being rudely ungrateful. If the father was out and the daughter was home, why should the boyfriend wait around longer than he needed just to give Dad $10 worth of guitar strings? For whose guitar were the strings intended? If the guitar belongs to the daughter and the strings were to be put on it, then the boyfriend did everything right. Dad sounds like a nut case. Wait- is this one of those weird "traditional" societies where someone's father has to be deferred to and who rules his house and his female relatives? Maybe to boyfriend is more modern and this is why the father is mad at him?