It's nice of you to play the peace-maker David, but the fact of the matter is that I already apologized for what I said in reference to izzy''s wife, and in the very thread I said it. What I wrote was something to the effect of "it's no wonder your wife left you," or "it's no wonder you're no longer married." Izzy replied that his wife had passed away of an illness.
I immediately replied that I didn't know that and that if I had, I wouldn't have written what I did. I also apologized for writing it, but that wasn't good enough for izzy. He insisted I knew about his wife's demise and that I was deliberately being cruel. I tried to convince him that I did not, but he would have none of it. Since then he has been repeatedly accusing me of insulting his deceased wife. Even if he is right that I knew he wife had passed (which I assure you I did not), how what I wrote to him translates to insulting his wife is beyond me. In any case I apologized for what I did
write and see no point in doing so again and certainly not for doing something I never did, insulting his wife.
As for comments about his son, these are total figments of his fevered mind. More than once, I'm sure, I've written that I do not want to see a national healthcare system like the UK's in the United States. Somehow izzy has interpreted that to mean I "hate" the UK health system, but that's only the beginning. Somewhere along the line he has come up with the fantastic notion that I wrote that I wished or hoped his son (who apparently has received and perhaps may still receives medical care through the UK health system) would die. This is either the product of a troubled mind or a blatant lie. I believe it's the latter and I have absolutely no intention of apologizing to him for something I never even came close to writing. My God, even if I had written in oversized capital letters that I hated and despised the NHS with every fiber of my being, how does that possibly translate into hoping a child dies?
Again, and again, I have challenged izzy to either produce the offending posts or stop his lying accusations about me in this forum and I've already told you his response. Now you've seen it's companion "You know exactly what you said, and you like to bring it up, because you don't want me to forget it."
So after he repeatedly impugned my character in this forum by writing his lies about me, I'm at fault for bringing them up. That's pretty damned rich, don't you think?
As you know there is no way to prove a negative. Even if I found every comment I have ever made in this forum that could even remotely be connected to izzy, his family, and the NHS, and copied them into one post in an effort to prove he is lying, I'm sure his response would be that I had left the ones he's complained about out, and that he wasn't going to produce them because that's "my work."
So, this is a long (and izzy would say "boring") way of telling you:
Thank you but I don't think I will.