Linkat: I have no doubt your instinct is correct. My "tone" has offended people my whole life, I know it, but am helpless to change it. I simply don't hear it... but others do. I don't hold myself blameless. I wasn't the random target of a bad policeman. I was wearing an official Green Bay Packers jersey with the words "PACK YOU!"
emblazoned on the back. My plate read PACKU as well, on the back of my speeding BMW Z3 Roadster and it was shortly after the Monday Night Football game had finished. It wouldn't take a world class investigator (or a bad cop) to reason I might be down playing the amount I had to drink. But the fact is; I wasn't. I was honest and I was denied my right to prove my innocence.
I've tipped more than a few beers with cops and I assure you no amount of good manners will make a man fair as well as a woman in the face of a speeding ticket. That's where these guys meet their wives, girlfriends and F-buddies. Your advice is spot on, but don't ever think your husband can match your performance in front of a police officer. He can't. I'll probably get in trouble for this stereotype; but you'd probably fair better than him in front of a female cop as well. :wink:
Right on fbaezer! If I pissed a cop off there with a $20 bribe, I'd be liable to have to give him $100! :wink: