Where do you live that people walk up to you and say "You're trash" and "People like you don't deserve kids." with no other provocation that you're simply present?
You mean to say they walk up to you out of the clear blue sky, not every having seen you before, and say those exact words?
Quite honestly, I doubt that happens exactly as you say.
In any event, you chose to get your ink and piercing knowing that you were going to get at least looks from some people, so what do you expect?
Where I live, no one would even look at you twice.