@Frank Apisa,
Frank Apisa wrote:The question of whether or not there is a self...which was the subject being discussed...
...is a BLIND GUESS.
It is no one's fault beside your own that you only see it as a guess.
The problem is, where ever there is attachment to the self, the person will ultimately deny and resist any attempt to shed light on the fact that there is no self that can be found. It is part of the self's attempt to solidify itself. It desperately WANTS it to be true.
This is the whole premise of buddhism and what the Buddha mentioned on many occasions. In fact he even warned against discussing it because people who are bound to the self will suffer any time you tell them, the self does not exist. The Buddha's point is to avoid placing a mindset where the result is suffering even if it is a mental one.
The aspect can not be shown. It has to be personally explored. I can't provide any evidence that the self does not exist. You must investigate it yourself. If you refuse to, that is not my problem that you don't understand it.
I gave you a few thought experiments. But they obviously were overlooked. So how about I make it a little more simplistic.
Let's just deal with the eye. If you were born blind and never saw anything. Later you were having a discussion with someone who was talking about the color red. You have never experienced the color red and NO amount of their explaining to you would ever get you to the point of actualizing what it is to experience the color red. That person talking about the color red could stand there a billion years describing the color to you and you would be NO WHERE closer to the experience.
This is why the self can not be explained away using evidence. It must be experienced directly. It has to be personally investigated. Not I nor anyone can prove it to you. Only you can experience it for yourself that what has been said is true.
Until then you are like a blind man insisting that the person who can see provide evidence that the color red exists.