Welcome Henry!
May I suggest you study how able?know works, that is, how it is structured. Use the tags, and groups, and specific forums that interest you. We're a pretty civil group here, but sometimes one ( ) can be offensive.
If you're a newbie to chat rooms, be mindful that the written word has whole different inflection than does the spoken word. I love it here because it's so diversified. Again, welcome.
Enjoy!