Some people feel a need to impose their views on others, everything's wrong unless it gets the Finn seal of approval. No doubt John Cleese's speech would get tuts of disapproval.
I find the John Cleese eulogy a big pus bag of terrible bad taste. Its perfect
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chai2
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Mon 30 Dec, 2013 08:14 am
@ehBeth,
ehBeth wrote:
It didn't work out so well. Every time one of the "happy" songs started there would be huge outbursts of tears and wails. It was horrific.
Yeah, that's what I'm looking for, wailing and gnashing of teeth at my departure. A funeral that will be remembered, not one of those funerals you go to that you vaguely remember someone said something. If it takes an inappropriate "happy" song to bring that out, so be it.
Jesus, God forbid people show strong emotion at a funeral.
I'm not looking to have a funeral anyway, so it feels strange to pick songs out.
feel better? good.
You seem to be the only one who wants to dispute the very basis of my thread. Have at me if it floats yer boat. You know that Ill respond.
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izzythepush
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Tue 31 Dec, 2013 04:57 am
@Finn dAbuzz,
Finn dAbuzz wrote:
I didn't say your answer is wrong, I said I wouldn't do it.
Nonsense Finn your post was sanctimoniously critical, suggesting the only way was your way.
Finn wrote:
Unlike Doc Holliday, I find nothing funny about death and I'm not prepared to line up a comedy revue for my funeral.
You funeral, ultimately, is for those left behind, and I doubt they will want to laugh.
Stop pretending otherwise it's very childish. I imagine a lot of people at your funeral will feel an overwhelming sense of relief.
On 18 August 1977, Biko was arrested at a police roadblock under the Terrorism Act No 83 of 1967 and interrogated by officers of the Port Elizabeth security police including Harold Snyman and Gideon Nieuwoudt. This interrogation took place in the Police Room 619 of the Sanlam Building in Port Elizabeth. The interrogation lasted twenty-two hours and included torture and beatings resulting in a coma.[17] He suffered a major head injury while in police custody at the Walmer Police Station, in a suburb of Port Elizabeth, and was chained to a window grille for a day.
On 11 September 1977, police loaded him in the back of a Land Rover, naked and restrained in manacles, and began the 1100 km drive to Pretoria to take him to a prison with hospital facilities. He was nearly dead owing to the previous injuries.[20] He died shortly after arrival at the Pretoria prison, on 12 September. The police claimed his death was the result of an extended hunger strike, but an autopsy revealed multiple bruises and abrasions and that he ultimately succumbed to a brain hemorrhage from the massive injuries to the head,[17] which many saw as strong evidence that he had been brutally clubbed by his captors. Then Donald Woods, a journalist, editor and close friend of Biko's, along with Helen Zille, later leader of the Democratic Alliance political party, exposed the truth behind Biko's death.[21][better source needed]
Because of his high profile, news of Biko's death spread quickly, opening many eyes around the world to the brutality of the apartheid regime. His funeral was attended by over 10,000 people, including numerous ambassadors and other diplomats from the United States and Western Europe. The liberal white South African journalist Donald Woods, a personal friend of Biko, photographed his injuries in the morgue. Woods was later forced to flee South Africa for England. Donald Woods later campaigned against apartheid and further publicised Biko's life and death, writing many newspaper articles and authoring the book, Biko, which was later turned into the film Cry Freedom.[22] Speaking at a National Party conference following the news of Biko's death then–minister of police, Jimmy Kruger said, "I am not glad and I am not sorry about Mr. Biko. It leaves me cold (Dit laat my koud). I can say nothing to you ... Any person who dies ... I shall also be sorry if I die."
After a 15-day inquest in 1978, a magistrate judge found there was not enough evidence to charge the officers with murder because there were no eyewitnesses.[23][24] On 2 February 1978, based on the evidence given at the inquest, the attorney general of the Eastern Cape stated he would not prosecute.[25] On 28 July 1979, the attorney for Biko's family announced that the South African government would pay them $78,000 in compensation for Biko's death.[24]
On 7 October 2003, the South African justice ministry announced that the five policemen accused of killing Biko would not be prosecuted because the time limit for prosecution had elapsed and because of insufficient evidence.[23]
The Truth and Reconciliation Commission, which was created following the end of minority rule and the apartheid system, reported that five former members of the South African security forces who had admitted to killing Biko were applying for amnesty. Their application was rejected in 1999.[23]