@hawkeye10,
Higher than 40% of males are battered by women. In such cases often celibacy is a way of healing and often even changing sexual preference in both cases can become a viable solution.
Celibacy is not for everyone, the New Testament calls celibacy a "gift"...
Males are brutes, though either sex can become stigmatized by bad relationships and seek the solace of celibacy...
As for males caring about the poor, the statistics don't lie, women are more often abandoned by their male mates and left to raise children alone.
There are of course exceptions to every rule...
Also, celibacy can simply just be a lifestyle or religious choice for some and does not necessarily require a traumatic experience to be considered.