@glitterbag,
Thanks for this, it helps. For the record, I did not say nor do I think everybody is picking on me. There are many wonderful people on A2K who never picked on anyone I'm sure, let one on me.... But it is an observation of mine that some ganging up can happen on occasion, and it did happen here. Not that I care, I can handle it, but it explains a lot.
I personally likes language and languages. I particularly love English, like many foreign speakers, and of course I also love my native language. To me, the inter-penetration of English and French has a strong positive message: we speak the same language, we share much in common across the Chanel, etc. Language does not only divides us, it also ties us. We're all mongrels, even in Europe. Sharing is the rule of the game. I appreciate your post very much because it does start from a positive attitude.
But as it happened, the point I made was met with such staunch, stubborn resistance, diversions, and -- to borrow a very Setantanesque word -- by such SNEER, that I started to suspect something. And then Foofie spilled the beans on how bad the French are...
I believe what happened is very simple: Lordtwat and Izzy's national pride and 'ambivalence' about the French was fired up, and played a sad role in this debate. For Set, it less clear, it has to do with culture rather than nation: apparently the French can't be said to have influenced English culture... Whatever.
I don't care -- my skin is thick enough and it's their loss in the end... It doesn't affect my take on other posters, it was just a fun fight, and I have learned something interesting during the discussion, and I hope others have been entertained and informed as well. All is well that ends well.