I haven't ignored any bit of advice. I have acknowledged each and every bit.
I just recently took butterflynet's advice, and put it to my helping. Now I have run into something more conflicting and would like some guidance.
Construction workers are like the rest of the population, many are easy to talk to, some maybe not so much. You, on the other hand, are exhausting. I'm sure you don't realize how demanding you are, but if you think it's too much trouble for YOU, to refresh yourself with the advice others have already offered why in the world would you expect others to continue to offer help.
I assume you took Butrflynet's advice to get some sleep, but other than that you have recognized, then rejected every other suggestion. What is it that you "run into something more conflicting"? Did you find another Facebook profile?
I'm not sure if this has occurred to you, but many of the members have faced much more harrowing experiences than "eyes met, and I have to find him". Some are dealing with serious illness, others with difficult financial issues, some are caring for infirm parents, or special needs children, friends and relatives have died and we mourn.
You are exhausting, you really need to figure out some of this yourself.