@BillRM,
Quote: Sorry dear I did not known the woman was alive before this attempt to ruin her life over a word she had used over thirty years ago came to my attention...
That's what makes your sudden devotion to her so peculiar, particularly since you are unacquainted with what she actually said in her recent sworn deposition for a lawsuit, and what that has revealed about her, and the workplace conditions she maintained in her 2 restaurants.
You've latched onto your own simplistic, and somewhat distorted, version of why Deen suddenly became persona non grata with her corporate business associates, and you have no apparent ability to absorb any factual information which might help to correct your distorted views. In fact, you've been working so hard to block out additional information, or even to apply logic and common sense, one must wonder why a more complete understanding would be so disruptive and threatening to you. Perhaps you are simply too limited to understand the issues beyond the simplistic level, and you can't admit that, even to yourself.
If you had bothered to read Deen's sworn deposition, you would know that her business associates are not just reacting to her use of the "N-word" 30 years ago. In her deposition, Deen admitted to maintaining current workplace conditions in which racially and sexually inappropriate and offensive behavior toward employees was acceptable and ongoing. At that workplace, she also enjoys derogatory and demeaning jokes about blacks, Jews, and gays, because, in her view, that's what "all jokes" are about.
Whether you consider such workplace behavior on her part as evidence of bigotry and prejudice is unimportant. Her corporate business associates found these revelations to be so disturbing that they no longer wished to be associated with her brand or the promotion or distribution of her products.
So, one by one, they have dropped her like a hot potato, in the interests of their own business.
So, what Deen is going through, with the loss of all these business contracts, is a direct result of her own behavior--her behavior as an employer in her restaurants, and her behavior in trying to explain and deal with the racial controversy as it unfolded around her.
All of that is apparently too complicated for you to understand.
In your simplistic, and distorted, version, it's still all about Deen using the "N-word" 30 years ago. If that truly was the only issue, Deen's business empire would be in good shape right now. Her main problems are the current conditions in her restaurant workplaces--conditions that include the current use of racial/ethnic/gender/sexual orientation slurs and similarly derogatory jokes targeting such groups, and the fact that Deen has found such conditions for her employees acceptable.
In her ill-advised "apology" videos, that Deen herself put forth in her own defense, her tearful statements were not accompanied by any real awareness of what she had done wrong, or what was wrong in the current atmosphere in her restaurant workplaces. Without that awareness, her apologies and contrition were meaningless, and it was simply a display of groveling self-pity. Her failure to understand, and take responsibility for, her own behaviors regarding her workplaces, simply tarnished her image more, and, again, this was her own doing. So, more of her business contracts began dropping like dead flies at her feet.
Paula Dean has tarnished and tainted and damaged her own brand and image--and she has done it herself through her own actions. And, since her business success depended on the health and viability of that brand and image, since her entire empire rested on it, her latest self-inflicted wound has been deep and substantial.
It also cannot be ignored that her current controversy comes on the heels of her prior concealment of her own diabetes 2 medical problems, and her decision to reveal the condition only after she inked a lucrative deal to hawk a diabetes drug for a pharmaceutical company. That helped to tag "Paula the deceitful hypocrite" onto her brand and image, and contributed to cracking the foundation on which it rested.
Nor can it be ignored that the product she has always peddled--mainly Southern "comfort foods" that contained unhealthful amounts of high sugar/high fats, contributors to the type of diabetes to which she fell victim-- has always been controversial and subject to considerable vocal criticism. Her whole empire was built on promoting and extolling foods that contribute to poor health. So, the basic value and premise of her product has been questionable and suspect from the start.
All of that is too complicated for you to understand.
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It been like watching a pack of jackals attacking a defenseless prey.
That's because your simplistic and distorted view of the situation fails to see that Deen has never been "defenseless prey"--she is fully responsible for her own actions, and statements, and their consequences. Her entire business rests on her brand, image, and reputation, and she's the one who trashed that image and reputation, starting with her diabetes concealment/drug endorsement controversy, and continuing in her sworn statements about her workplace conditions, and continuing in her clueless self-pitying videos and Today show interview.
And the woman could afford top-notch legal, PR, and crisis management help, to assist her in dealing with her own self-created mess.
And, rather than being "a pack of jackals attacking a defenseless prey," her corporate business partners have behaved in quite the opposite manner--they've backed away from her, because they can smell the toxic fumes she's emitting, and they don't want to be poisoned by consuming what she offers right now. They haven't really attacked her, they've just severed ties with her, for their own long-term business interests.
You are committed to maintaining a rather paranoid conspiratorial view of Deen's dilemma, which is fixated on seeing her as the helpless, and essentially blameless, victim of various murky conspiracies--the "PC police", "the movement", "liberals", "the mob", "a pack of jackals"--malevolent forces who have been lurking in the shadows, ready to pounce on, and ruin, this woman, for no apparent reason, other than their delight in destroying someone.
You clearly identify with Deen in seeing her as the innocent victim of unjustified attacks by others--that's why you keep dredging up all the past unsavory names and accusations that other posters have leveled at you on A2K. What you and Deen do have in common is your absolute cluelessness about why you elicit those negative reactions from others, and your consequent inability to consider your own behaviors in terms of their negative impact on others. So neither of you can recognize the validity of other people's reactions to you, nor can either of you appreciate the degree of offensiveness in the things you say. Neither of you are innocent victims, both of you trash your own reputations through your own statements, and your own values that are expressed through such statements. And people are entitled to react negatively to both of you when they find such things offensive.
So your remarks in this thread are little more than an attempt to defend yourself. You have no more interest in Paula Deen now than you did before this controversy, when you admit you were barely aware of her existence. That's why you don't bother to acquaint yourself with her actual deposition, and you lightly dismiss her enjoyment of derogatory and demeaning jokes about blacks, Jews,. gays, etc in the workplace., and you absurdly say that she can't be a racist because she voted for Obama--you don't want to look at the reality of her behaviors that are causing people to react to her in a certain way--you have no need to look at such things because your comments are really defenses of yourself.
If Paula Deen wants to rehabilitate herself, and clean up her act, she'll be able to recoup some of her losses because she has always had a fan base which has remained loyal to her. She's obviously got to craft a somewhat different image for herself, but she's done that before too, by shifting to some healthier versions of the type of cooking she promotes--and her new cookbook had been intended to move her image in that direction. Like any good business woman, she knows she's got to move with the trends.
What Deen fails to see is that prejudice and bigotry, even when casually expressed, in slurs or derogatory and demeaning jokes about certain groups, is no longer culturally acceptable, not just because it's "not PC" or it's in "bad taste", but because it's hurtful, and harmful, and keeps divisiveness and discrimination alive and well. Paula has to realize what's wrong with those derogatory jokes she enjoys, and why they aren't harmless. If she really believes she's not bigoted, then she should make sure she's not promoting bigotry, even casually, in her workplace, or in own attitudes. And, when she's able to do those things, she'll be able to make a comeback of sorts, and retain her niche appeal, and regain some marketing platforms for her wares.
You also need to see that prejudice and bigotry, even when casually expressed, in slurs or derogatory and demeaning jokes about certain groups, is no longer culturally acceptable, not just because it's "not PC" or it's in "bad taste", but because it's hurtful, and harmful, and keeps divisiveness and discrimination alive and well--and you've got to stop defending it, if you truly believe you're not a bigot or prejudiced person. And, even more importantly, you've got to stop negatively characterizing and negatively stereotyping entire groups in your posts at A2K--as you have done with Muslim-Americans, women, gays, and, at times, young black males, in your various posts on this site. And no, I'm not going to dig up examples of that, which you would only deny anyway, nor am I interested in listening to you rationalize such bigoted views.
You're not the innocent defenseless prey of a pack of jackals, and neither is Paula Deen--but both of you are responsible for your own behaviors and the sort of reactions you elicit and provoke from others. Right now, the consequences to Paula, of her own behaviors, are hitting her in the pocketbook. The consequences to you, of your own statements at A2K are that you often become the object of derision and ridicule, you get called a lot of unpleasant names, your opinions are often disregarded or easily dismissed, and you are generally not regarded with much respect. If any of that bothers you, you have no one but yourself to blame.
I have more considerably more faith that the light will dawn on Deen than it will dawn on you. I believe that she probably does have a good heart, but I'm not so sure about you. You harbor too much hostility to really have a good heart.
And, I have no doubt that you'll fail to comprehend this post, and you'll go on repeating that simplistic nonsense, gnawing on that same bone, and using Paula Deen as an excuse to defend yourself and your own boorish behavior, becoming more and more histrionic in the process...