@reasoning logic,
How much one wants to dip their hand into the jar is freely up to them...
Does one want to be free forever? Then they will see someone else not...
Does one want to suffer forever? Then they will see someone else will be free forever...
Does one want to be free and have everyone else suffer? (The Devil)
Then they will be free, but watch everyone else suffer...
Does one want everyone to be free and not suffer forever? (God)
Then they will be suffering forever so that they can see no one else will have too...
Does one think that no one has to suffer forever and everyone will be free?
Then one will be suffering forever so that no one ever has to suffer ever again...
Does one think that everyone suffers, and so do they?
Then they will never have to see one suffering, but they do not either...but will be...
Does one think that they suffer because they want to, but do not wish too...?
Then they will not suffer anymore, when they chose to cease it from happening and be free forever...
Does one think a God will save them from this? Then a Devil will keep them until they chose to change themselves...
The point is to let everything go...forever...and you will always be...forever...
I think when one wants to be perfect, fix their mistakes and be with God...
(Does one want everyone to be free and not suffer forever? (God)
Then they will be suffering forever so that they can see no one else will have too...)
They will deal with their own imperfections, Live off the evil they have self created...and others have...and be eternally happy forever...as one with God...forever...with no more pain for themselves or God...because they will conquer it all...and be happy and free forever...
Because once this mentality is achieved...No one has to suffer forever themselves and God can save us all...
I have not gotten any farther than that...because I think it can only be understood in the next life...but i keep searching...