@Leadfoot,
there is no suffering in life--it is only the word we make out of it. what stands in the way, is only a way.
on this topic generally. i would say that you cant have an athiest change if he does'nt think he has a spirit in him. only a spirit can see spirit things and understand them.
if not, cold logic is all you get, with a big ignorance to things logic cant explain itself.