You're asking two different questions.
Your thread title is "does the word "god" scare you? - if so, why?"
In your post, you say your original question is "why does he scare you"
Two entirely different concepts, two entirely different questions. Also quite a few assumptions - that a god exists, that if a god exists it is a male, that if there is a god there is only one etc.
Let's start with: which question do you want answered and what gives you the the idea people are scared??