@ehBeth,
So true! Selecting several major interests I believe would simplify the planning for any trip.
Even organized tours with some free time allows people to explore on their own, and seek out places of personal interests.
When young, I tend to believe in free-lancing where to go and what to see. Part of the fun of travel is to go from place to place on a whim. I remember when I did a Eurail pass many decades ago when I was riding the train from Paris to Brussels, and a gentleman I met on the train returning from a bike tour because it started raining in Southern France. I asked him where to visit, because I had a free day before returning to London for my flight home. He recommended Brugges, so I went, and I had a lovely time visiting this very unique Venice of the North. I still think about that trip, and wonder if I should return there for a last hurrah.
Travel to me is more than a hobby; it's a desire I have deep in my heart and soul.