dlowan wrote:How is sex a "base" instinct, Craven? Not sure of your definition of base here - do you mean basic? I see sex, as an instinct, as neither base, nor ...er...what, elevated, I guess (lol) - just as an instinct. It is what we do with it that makes the difference.
Does "primordial" work for you?
caprice wrote:Frank Apisa wrote:Sex is a motivator -- although control, domination, and plain violence are huge ingredients.
Was the above comment in regard to rape? If so, I strongly disagree. The motivator is not sex but power.
Says you. I disagree. I also disagree with the supposed mutual exclusivity of the two.
You can repeat this many times. In today's society it's oft repeated.
But you can't prove it. And for good reason.
Quote:By instilling fear, by provoking pleading, by making his victim helpless he gains power over her/him. That is the what excites him, not the sexual act itself.
You separate the two without demonstrating why it should be. Frank made a good point. If it were just about power or fear it could easily be satisfied without sex.
It would come in the form of threatening phone calls, beatings and such but not rape.
Quote:In answer to the difference between sex and the sexual act, I guess I think of it in a more emotional sense. Physically there is no difference. Emotionally I consider sex to be something both parties engage in, in an emotional sense. Whereas the sexual act doesn't require both parties be emotionally engaged.
Like I said, there's a desire to separate the two and this desire is unfounded. There's no need to respond to guilt by association. Such is a fallacy and compartmentalizing this makes little sense and is, IMO, very counter productive.
Quote:It isn't the sexual act in and of itself that the rapist is motivated by
I've yet to hear anyone anywhere assert that.
Quote:but the power he obtains by forcing this physical act upon an unwilling individual
What we are saying is that this is likely "a" source but that you have no basis upon which to declare that it is "the" source.
Quote: If it really was primarily about sex, then I would think the judge's comments would hold more validity.
No, even then it wouldn't make sense.
Sexual acts with unattractive people happen all the time. One's unattractiveness has nothing to do with teh possibility of the act.
This does not even address the vastly differing tastes.
The judge's comments were idiotic and fallacious regarless of this issue we are discussing.