I just don’t understand drinking and driving

@OmSigDAVID,

David, stop pestering me about those videos.

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then to CONFESS that u were in error as to the wisdom
of making statements to the police qua crimes where of u r suspected.

I think people, who are suspected of crimes, should have an attorney present when making statements to the police.

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@BillRM,

Bill.

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Not trusting not being wise?

Well that is easy to say to a victim of a a broken major trust relationship such as a marriage that he or she should just forget it and offer another person the same level of trust but it is a hard thing to do.

Never could understand how someone could get his or her final divorce papers one day and married the next day to another person.

You are talking some 25 or so years ago... How can you be wise at 37? Wisdom comes with age.. Look at the Forum you are on, the people older than you and their wisdom...

A victim in my opinion is one who chooses to be a victim.. **** happens, you get over it and say, fine, you weren't good enough, you weren't the right one, I settled, I am better than that and know that you did nothing wrong.. Nothing is perfect unless two people work to make it so... Marriage is a piece of paper however, soulmates is real.. Soulmates don't settle they are people that just marry, match and consequently lead and live happy lives.

It is easy to do. They are who they are, you are who you are... You understand, yet again another lesson in life and you move on.

I would say on your last bit, they can't be alone.. And believe that marriage makes it all ok.. Like I said above, it's a piece of paper. Marriage take compatability and hard work, no different than a job only hopefully more fruits of rewards such as laughter, friendship and good sex.. What? Got to be compatible in all areas or there is no marriage.

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@hawkeye10,

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in many places in America: sodomy - dont do it -law is law

Fifth amendment .......

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@FOUND SOUL,

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in many places in America: sodomy - dont do it -law is law

FOUND SOUL wrote:

Fifth amendment .......

WHICH section of it??

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@OmSigDAVID,

OmSigDAVID wrote:

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in many places in America: sodomy - dont do it -law is law
FOUND SOUL wrote:
Fifth amendment .......
WHICH section of it??

The sodomy section.

I have to admit, I don't think people should be allowed to drive if they're sodomising someone at the same time.

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@OmSigDAVID,

My section David, you know the one where I don't understand why I's or i's are important, and that I agree with Hawkeye, usually you are nice Smile

And, I choose not to answer and oops Smile

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@izzythepush,

Agreed... That would be , reversing without looking?

Dangerous huh...

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@FOUND SOUL,

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, fine, you weren't good enough, you weren't the right one, I settled, I am better than that and know that you did nothing wrong.. Nothing is perfect unless two people work to make it so... Marriage is a piece of paper however, soulmates is real.. Soulmates don't settle they are people that just marry, match and consequently lead and live happy lives.

Bullshit using the fact of both a marriage lic and the fact that I was stupid enough to put her name on my home my ex-wife allowed her sister to keep living in the home against my strong wishes after she had brought stolen properties and drugs into the home.

The ex-sister in-law also took a handgun out of my home with out my knowledge or permission and then got high and wreak my new car and so on.

Then it came out that my ex-wife herself had a drug problem that she had been hiding from me and was not interested in getting treatment for her problem.

Then my wife lied under oath that she had been hit when the only one in the relationship who had been hit were me by her.

No dear it was not just a couple who relationship just did not work out the lady broke her trust and her vows.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Until 2008 some of those laws was still on the books and being enforce.

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in many places in America: sodomy - dont do it -law is law

Fifth amendment .......

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@BillRM,

I recall the hitting scenario on one thread somewhere.

But, then if you think about it, you didn't know her at all, your ex-wife. If you did, you would have known she was into drugs, or suspected, I mean you can't really hide that very well and you would have known more about her family as well as her personality, obviously stronger than yours as you are basically stating that you couldn't kick the sister-in-law out.........

So like I said, marriage is a piece of paper. That means the paper itself is nothing, certainly money is involved and men get angry, do I have to go back and repeat myself there? Seems that I was right, I also mentioned that the anger is from your ex-wife but you said, no, no, no, previous relationships.

In any event it doesn't matter because otherwise I will be writing another 10 posts like I did on drink driving and I ain't going there.

You, get over it.
Learn from your mistakes.
Don't wait 25 years to marry again.
Rather, realise what a goose you were for settling.
THE
FIRST
TIME

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@FOUND SOUL,

Sorry when I met her she was holding down two jobs and taking care of her children beside so she gave an impression of being a hard working and very responsible person not a drug user!!!!!!!!

Not until I married her did she drop the act.

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@BillRM,

"Hard working" mmm. So once you married her did she quit her jobs? And, just look after "her" children which then became your children?

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@FOUND SOUL,

When we got married I told her to drop one job and that she did and then shortly, a month or two, afterward she got fired from the other job. At least that what she told me at the time.

The children was of school age so there was no need for day care most of the year and we have her mother to baby site when needed. My ex-wife and her children was living with her mother when I met her.

Of course after she was no longer employed there was no need for sitters.

Now let see if you can come up with some new theory of what I did wrong to deserve the nonsense this woman put me through.

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@BillRM,

Wellll....

Maybe, you were her meal ticket, or so she thought.

I mean, she was living with her Mother, working two jobs to support the children and assist one would hope, with bills that were incured at a higher rate, for her Mother and then, along came you...

A secure job, quiet.... etc, etc...

So theory? She settled, you settled, as a result wrong match...

That is what happens when people settle.

I am sure she put you through alot. But, that means you didn't know her like I said, or her personality because other wise, you would never have gotten with her in the first place, as in, marriage...

I see you trusted her because you put her name of the house... Thinking that the word "marriage" means for ever.

I've already answered my thoughts on what constitutes a marriage, no one is perfect, it's fantastic when people get it right the first time, it's common for people not to. But, honestly? It pays to forget and see it as a lesson or else it will haunt you for the rest of you life, then that person effectively wins don't they? If you can't let go of what occured.

I'm interested to know what happened to her.. And, if you ever stayed in touch with the kids, assuming you were married for a little while.

But, you don't have to answer naturally.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Look FS, BillRM lives to expose details of his really dull life. Remember you've only got his side of the argument.

And please, stop encouraging him. I don't want to hear any more details of his pathetic existance. So what if his ex-wife did a number on him. The twat ******* deserved it.

This is a man who worships rapists and paedophiles.

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@izzythepush,

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This is a man who worships rapists and paedophiles.

he wants all to be treated honestly and fairly. even men. even men who have been accused of mistreating women or/and children. even himself. right honorable fellow if you ask me. he is being true to the roots of liberalism, before they got a wild hair and decided to ape the Right on law and order issues.

this of course is a problem for the lefties of A2K, as their current views on the subject can only be had by violating major portions of the code which their camp once swore by.

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@izzythepush,

My existance is to accept people for who they are.

Everybody hurts.
Everybody does something foolish in life.
Everybody deserves to be treated as they treat you.

When Bill acts like an idiot or rubs me the wrong way, I for sure go hell back at him or anyone, but you know me, there is humanity as well and I can't stop being who I am.

As for the last statement? For sure that would put a distaste in my mouth but you guys have been here a long time and know what you read/ have read, I'm still reading.... for now.

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@hawkeye10,

I just want to get a portion of that right in my mind.

Are you stating that a person can rape be it an Adult, teen or child, or should be able to if it wasn't for the law?

Tell me that is not at all what you meant.

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@FOUND SOUL,

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but you guys have been here a long time and know what you read/ have read, I'm still reading.... for now.

more often made up in their minds as they emotionally recoil from anyone questioning the assertion that accused rapists and child molesters should be burned at the stake post haste. these people cant defend their views so they vilify those who ask uncomfortable questions and/or bring up inconvenient facts instead.

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@hawkeye10,

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he wants all to be treated honestly and fairly.

Bollocks. He, like you, just wants to indulge his own passions. All that really matters is your own pleasure. Neither of you gives a **** about anyone else.

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