@hawkeye10,
Quote:I am here to explore truth.
No, you're here mainly to use this site as a platform for your half-baked, poorly conceptualized opinions--and you foolishly, and quite arrogantly, mistake your
opinions for "truth". You further foolishly conclude that, because most people disagree with, or entirely disregard, your views and "pronouncements", that means such views are radical or controversial rather than insubstantial, and not particularly convincing, which is much closer to the truth.
You're also quite generally bigoted in your attitudes, toward a number of groups, and that includes your attitude toward gay men. Particularly toward Morgan and Marco, your comments have been quite demeaning and insulting. Repeatedly referring to Morgan's legal spouse as his "boy toy" was only one of your many attempts to disparage their relationship--a relationship that you fail to see is based on very strong loving bonds, and mutual respect, which is the essence of any good marriage.
Morgan has used threads like this one to share aspects of his life, particularly his family and home-life, with us, and many of us have appreciated and enjoyed the opportunity to get to know this family better. You enter such threads generally to make only negative comments about these people or to attack them in some way. This, for instance, was one comment you made about Marco.
You want "less sharing"? Just don't read threads where people--particularly gay men-- discuss their lives, if you don't want to hear about them. Part of this site serves a community function, so that those who wish to can share, and let others know more about their personal lives, their relationships, and their daily activities--and that's how people connect to each other on forum sites like this one.
Quote:...Morgan only gets a pass for this BS because he is a homo, thus we are supposed to cheer him on no matter what he does...Sorry, I refuse to hand out free passes to the victim class.
You were really restrained in that post, in merely referring to Morgan as a "homo"--in other threads you have referred to gays as "fags"--but your bigoted attitudes still come across loud and clear.
You think Morgan is liked because he's a member of the "victim class"? That's more of your warped thinking about gays. Morgan is liked because he comes across as a very nice guy--kind, considerate, thoughtful, caring, and generous--and that's expressed in his comments to other posters as well as what he says about his real life behaviors. He's not caught up in being a victim of any sort.
You, on the other hand, constantly cast yourself in the victim role--you are constantly complaining that you, or men in general, are being victimized or hammered by one group or entity or another--you are a consistent whiner about being a victim.
Morgan and Marco "paraded the relationship"--that's how you view their sharing? You see it as their flaunting something? You'd prefer that gays keep their loving relationships, and partnerships, and marriages, hidden and secret, like the good old days when you didn't have to hear about them?
I can't recall you ever accusing a heterosexual of "parading" a relationship. If you can't tolerate gay married men talking about their relationships, then just don't read those threads. No one is shaking any relationship in your face, people have the right to talk about their lives on A2K, and you have the right to ignore them. You really don't have any right to gratuitously insult them because you don't approve of their lifestyle.
When people choose to talk about their personal lives, in the way that Morgan and Marco have done, they are not asking to be judged, by you or anyone else--they aren't looking for relationship advice, they are simply sharing aspects of their lives, so others can get to know them better as people. And, since you seem to lack any sense of humor, and any ability to understand humor, you've also failed to comprehend the humor, and exaggeration, in many of Marco's "complaints" about Morgan--you're just too dim to realize when people are kidding around. These two love and respect each other very much--that's why they got married and plan to spend the rest of their lives together--and a happy marriage may be so far from your own personal experience that you just can't connect to that, or your homophobia may be blinding you to seeing that.
Good thing you have no interest in making friends at A2K. You're nasty, obnoxious, narrow-minded and bigoted, all of which make you rather unappealing. Since you're such a seeker of "truth" you should appreciate hearing that.