She is still wonderful. Complicated, of course.
I remember calling her butterball at two, but she can't get me back unless she starts calling me Woodeye, and she doesn't know that joke.
On the photo, I just noticed that I had some kind of grey veil on the top of my head - not. I might have been 50 or 51 then, still brown hair. I don't know how that could happen in a photo that I've looked at many times before. Some kind of strange dissolution in photo time? Or I missed it in many looks? (it's framed, in a prominent place, natch).
But back to the main topic, two daddies.
I think it can work. No personal experience. Friends have been together long, but with older kids.