@wandeljw,
wandeljw wrote:An English name that actually sounds like the Chinese name has benefits. You are more likely to react when someone calls you by your English name if it sounds like the name you grew up with.
Maybe, maybe not. Mother changed her name from a simple one syllable lovely name to a three syllable oddity. She was quite able to handle it, and through it all both her parents continued to use her birth name. Some family used both her first and new name (which had been her middle name). That too often happens with a name change, if people know you from the earlier name they march continue with it at least for a time.
Of course Mother was mentally unstable so that may have helped, she maybe had been practicing her new name for years and nobody knew (except the Spinach family that lived in her bureau drawer). Then again, maybe that's why she took the shears to the sofa cushions and then denied it while strips of fabric were strewn everywhere. Maybe the cushions knew and she had to silence them.
I think in the end of it all, the idea is selecting a name one is most comfortable with, then it fits them and they will respond.