@JD The Confused,
Quote:hard to when everyone is out for themselves what happened to being nice...helping people...and being helped....hmm oh wait i know the portion of what i call unreasonable people ruined that made everyone not trust and made everyone paranoid but hey thats what makes us human right back in the old days wasnt wealth that let you live it was strength and the honor to know the difference....my huge change would be a restoration of honor...
Hah, I have a theory on that, where a number of things have contributed to this situation :
- parents of recent generations were brainwashed to think that children are little adults, and parents are their best friends...respectively leading to parents not spending time explaining how the world work and why manners are necessary to children (because hey they are little adults and can figure it out for themselves), and being their best friends lead them to supporting their children when society tried to hold the children to account for the manners that their parents never taught them - the parents then come to their defense...thereby teaching them that it's alright (and that no one else can correct their behaviour). Of course this plays out in many different other ways too.
-too many parents are in the habit of 'giving my child everything he/she needs' and doing everything for their child...leading to a sense of 'it's all about me'
- schools (and parents to a degree) teach children that they have all these rights, but no obligations (esentially that they have no boundaries). This leads children to test the boundaries (because all children actually want trustworthy boundaries). The other effect of having all rights and no obligations is a sense of 'it's all about me'
- Civil Libertarians fight hard for the rights of the individual (read 'criminals') but there is no similar organisation championing the rights of society. This lends to a very individualistic view of society (so social obligation / friendliness to strangers etc fails)
- Papers prey on fear. Law stats show that pedophilia is no more prevelant today than in years gone by, but there is a great deal more fear of them today than in years gone by. Leading to a distrust of strangers, a distrust of male teachers in Primary school (so removing a major male role model). Papers also prey on Law Enforcement blunders - demonising law enforcement sells papers...feel good stories rarely do. So the very people (and yes, the organisation consists of people) that try to help are demonised.
-Civil courts encourage it because you can be sued for anything. If you try to help an injured person and botch it, you can almost guarantee you are going to be sued. If you are a volunteer in an organisation, you can be sued if something goes wrong. If you are a doctor and make a mistake, you can be sued. In fact - in almost any sector, whether you are a volunteer or a professional trying to help people, you can be sued. People today think it is there right and 'insurance will cover it'...but the suits involve attacking flesh and blood people, and blaming those that try to help ....so it encourages people to 'look out for number one' and to 'not get involved'.
-Governments I think, don't put a stop to the civil suits because it suits them to have 'individualistic' minded people who are 'out for number 1' rather than 'society minded' people. Society minded people are a lot harder to convince (read 'buy/persuade') than individualist people (the individualist only has to consider him/herself, not other people).
-Governments, or more accurately Elected Members, having created a system of 'buying' votes, have then created a society that believes the government should sort out their every problem by throwing money at it. This had lead to a sense of being 'priveleged' where 'everyone else should sort out any problem I have'
...and having not sorted out their own problems, when others call them to account, they are angry because 'someone should have sorted this out for me a long time ago'. Why would anyone want to get involved with a person like that?
That of course, is a very short circuited version, but you probably get the idea.