@jcboy,
I enjoy your joy at posting flagrance. So many pals of mine were so circumspect for so many years.. well, not all were circumspect, and in retrospect I consider them seriously brave re careers at the time. I wonder if you'll change about that, not to closet but not having it be so tied to what you are talking about at any given time - the flagrant pals are now in their sixties and seventies and quieter along the western front.
I'm speaking of men, here, am not as friend connected with bumptious lesbians, bumptious in my presence anyway.
On the other hand, it is a really heady time now, with the marriage change..