@izzythepush,
I think that Arella Mae is being honest and I think that is all we can hope form a person! Please do not get me wrong because I also think that being intellectually honest with ourselves is an even greater value!
The reason that I brought up casting stones was because I remember something that I value from the bible and that was the lady who may have went against Gods word and committed adultery and Jesus said let he who has never sinned cast the first stone.
I do not know how most Christians interpret that but I interpret that as not to judge or condemn others even if God forbids what they have done but instead share with them why you would think that it may be harmful to behave in such away.
Trust me about one thing and that is I can be wrong, even though I feel all alone in this thinking at times!