@Rockhead,
turns out Set was forced to upgrade to FF 8.0 at around 5 a.m. today
he and the dogs went for a walk while I fought with the puter
I uninstalled the FF 8.0 he'd installed - some kinda glitch in it
reinstalled FF 8.0 - it's still ugly, but after 2 refreshes the bookmarks came back (phew)
I wouldn't choose this over 3.6, but I'll learn to live with it. Still need to figure out how to get my toolbar back.