@JGoldman10,
I gather Junior, I assume that is what the J stands for, what you don't realize that you can catch more bees with honey than with vinegar.
I think what folks are trying to tell you is that your M O is lopsided, your attitude ridiculous and foremost that you are being very disrespectful to the very people you want approval from.
You are not going to get it with negative behavior.
Just remember, negative action follows negative thought -
Positive action follows positive thought.
Think about it?