@Linkat,
My vote is “playing in the surf while hugging” scene in Rocky 3. We were watching this last night and I told my husband that is the “gayest” scene in a movie. There you have two very muscular men running all out and suddenly they start splashing around in the surf and hugging one another and to top it off – they are where short shorts and one is sporting a porno mustache. My husband claimed that was just the fashion in the 80s. I still think it is pretty gay.
If you disagree, just look:
oops I need to figure out now how to include a picture