Is he a narcissist?

I met a man online 2 years ago. After 6 weeks of a passionate love affair, he told me he was married. He told me he would leave her, and although me made several attempts, he never did.
He is very handsome and charming in a self effacing sort of way. He was 54, but looked 44. He came on very strong and told me he loved me soon after we met. He wined me and dined me. He is a very good lover, passionate and affectionate. The best lover I've ever had.
The only real gift he ever gave me, except for roses a couple times, was on our first date! He gave me a bottle of perfume. He hurt my feelings many times by not buying me anything for Valentines, my birthday, etc.
He is a school teacher, and a head football coach at a large high school. He is a sort of rock star in the area he lives in.
When he would try to leave his wife he would return saying that he couldn't stand hurting her. But he seemed oblivious to hurting me, although he said he wasn't.
I still feel that I love him very much, but we are not speaking now. He went out of town on New Years by himself, and he was out of reach on the phone for 6 hours on New Years eve, and I believe he was with another woman although he said he went to a movie and fell asleep! He has told me that he has had affairs in the past, and has picked women up in bars, etc for years when he is out of town. He said that stopped when he met me.
He also told me he has not had sex with his wife for 10 years when we met, and that it was his decision, not hers. He said she no longer appealed to him sexually after 10 years of marriage, and he just stopped. She is, however, still attractive.

Does this sound like the behavior of a narcisstist?