That's fascinating. You respond to one with
This 'be happy with' you speak of is an excuse to 'settle' and stop thinking for your freedom/disentanglement.
and then respond to the other one with
That's an interesting and valid way to conceptualize your life. Since I always seem to be going to bed and about to fall into sleep I like to think of my life as one long continuous day segmented into 8 hour nighttime "naps." But that's no better than your model.
You chastise one for 'settling' and not "thinking for your freedom/disentanglement"
. Then with the other one you entangle your 'self' in a 'conceptualization'.
A concept (or conceptualization) is a 'combination of characteristics'. It is a mis-representation of life. What 'game' are you playing with your 'self', Trev?