@north,
north wrote:bonds again
picture the water molecule , now picture the interaction of the atoms within the water molecule , they attract , complex , but they attract
as you observe where is the liquid ?
Sorry North, you are either not reading or not understanding some basic molecular physics.
If I've interpreted correctly what you are saying (in the quote that I have bolded) you are expecting to be able to recognise that something is a liquid from observing one molecule? Liquidity (or any other state of matter) is not a property of single molecules, it is only observable when extremely large numbers of molecules are grouped together and it is a description of their motion in relation to each other. In solids the molecules vibrate but stay in approximately the same position. Liquids are non-compressible fluids the molecules move around more freely but take the shape of their container. Gases are compressible fluids, molecules are sufficiently energised to expand to fill a container.
Apologies if I've misinterpreted what you've said.
What's holding the water molecules close enough together to appear on the macro level as a liquid is not just about the interactions between atoms in a molecule - it is also about the polar attraction of the molecules themselves to each other. The molecule is asymmetric and the O end (red below) is negatively charged and attracts the positively charged hydrogen ends of other water molecules which in turn attract the oxygen ends of other water molecules ad infinitum.