@Setanta,
Me, too.
I didn’t have the same issues to contend with boomer, though my own situation paralleled yours in some ways, to my mind anyway. No need or desire to go into any of that except to say I’ve personally related to many of your posts about Mo. I’ll take the time now to tell you I very much admire how you do the very best you can for him. He's a lucky boy. I think I know how very lucky you are, too
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That said, my husband would make a point of having “boys night in,” whenever I was away for a weekend or even for a night out with the girls. They’d rent movies and have homemade chocolate/banana milkshakes almost as a rite of passage, and have a bit of fun boasting to me how while I was away they could “burp and fart and not have to say excuse me.”
We kept it light.