@Cyracuz,
Cyracuz wrote:
Well, the times I am confronted with someone who has a mind to subject me to violence it is most often because of jealousy, sometimes because the woman they like doesn't like them and gives me more attention. Not necessarily that kind of attention, but that doesn't matter to an insecure drunk. Am I obliged to stay away from my friends just because someone might become jealous? No. Neither am I obliged to explain anything to these idiots. But I am within my rights to put them in their place should they try to take their frustration out on me.
But even though this has happened a few times, I have never punched someone or done anything but defend myself, usually just by getting out of the way. But I am not inclined to block and evade forever. If someone cannot be persuaded to stop I am within my rights to stop them, and I do not feel any moral reservations towards doing so. Legally speaking I could break their leg after they throw the first punch, but that kind of behavior tends to create lasting conflicts and enemies, and I am interested in neither.
I try to stay fit, do a little moi tai; but I long ago found out that the best was to avoid violence is to avoid those places violence are common to...
In a sense, rights has nothing to do with it... It is possible to hurt people, and some times to kill them and have legal right on your side... But the point is not what we can legally do, but morally live with, and no moral person easily accepts the injury of another....
Fate has us injured, diseased, and some day dead... Every evil that can befall a person may strike you... If you are inclined to accept either fate, or God then it is best to not deserve all that you will suffer... It is uncommon for youth to feel this way... They are struck with the unfairness of life, and wish to deserve the injury they know awaits them; but having been there, felt that injury and done that injury and deserved in turn worse injury I would rather not have the question before my existential mind... Kierkaguard said: In comparison with God man suffers as guilty... Been awhile... I don't know if I got the phrase correct or the name... But existentials aside; we must some day ask for justice, and this is best and most easily done if we have always done justice... Are you in part responsible for the trouble that finds you??? Then make trouble search you up, and perhaps it never will come looking...