@GoshisDead,
GoshisDead wrote:
boomerang wrote:
It's 8:30 and I finally have everyone clean and fed and we still have a half hour of reading to do so I need to get after it.
I think I'm beginning to understand why our state only has a 60% graduation rate. If the 15 minute a year thing is true that means there would be three hours of homework a night by 12th grade.
6 hours of school, plus 3 hours of homework, plus 1/2 hour of chores, plus 2 or 3 hours of extracirricular activities makes too long a day for any kid.
Add in 8 hours to sleep and you only get about 4.5 hours to yourself on any given day. No adult would do that without a fat paycheck waiting for them at the end of the week.
You are a Mom you do it everyday
You know, I have to agree with this.
Not just that you're a mom.
Following your figures, an adult would "only" get 4.5 hours to yourself during a day?
That is one lucky adult, fat paycheck or not.
Here's the day of perhaps a typical minimum wage earner...
Up at 6am
From 6a to 7a get yourself, the kids ready, feed any pets, etc. etc.
7a to 8a - wait for the bus, take it to work
8a-5p (or some 8 hour period) At work with hour lunch (which is probably a half hour)
5p to 6p - wait for bus, take it home
6p-? - prepare food, take care of laundry, kids, pets, someone sick etc etc etc.
Go to bed at 10p (probably 11p)
I don't even have kids, and off the top of my head, I can't see where I get 4.5 hours to myself any day, including weekends.
Does this mean everyone is unhappy?
No. You find your pleasures during the time you are working, and doing necessary stuff for yourself and family.
Why is there this idea that work, whether for pay, or homework has to be something negative.
Working - bad.
Not working - good
I don't get that.
Isn't part of enjoyment and fun being challenged?