@Cyracuz,
Cyracuz wrote:
Quote:You can trust a dog; but how many people can you trust???
What mistrust does to a person might be lesser of an evil than the pain of broken trust. Maybe I would feel better if I trusted and was let down than if I didn't trust at all...
Clearly, you know how the dog feels... I think it takes a lot of strength and courage to deal with humanity berzerk, as it were, without armor... I am certain that my own careless words have hurt many, and I have been hurt as well... This site represents the bulk of my human interactions only because I can be little hurt here, and do not feel I have the power to hurt anyone here, though clearly I have hurt some without much intent... But the reason I relate more here than in the real world is not fear of hurt, but the fact that it is easier to walk away from this and ya'all than real people... There is a lot of need out there...
A lot of people are hurt and wounded, walking around not knowing what they are going to do, or even where they will find their next meal... If this is escape, it is escape from the fact that no one human can witness pain without feeling pain, and there is a real risk of being caught in the downward drift of others, much as swimmers are sucked down with a sinking ship...
Desparete people are dangerous... Hopeless people can be deadly...You hear of people being killed by strangers, or people they know or are related to who hate them... It is not seldom you here of some one being killed by one they were trying to help or counsel in some fashion... I don't wnat to be a good samaritin... I want to help people, when I help people, because I think they need it, and they ask for it, and will benefit by it- understanding that all interaction means I have an open ended relationship with that person whose course no one alone can dictate...
It takes guts to risk hurt, and it take courage to love; but it beats the hell out of going through life with your guard always up as some times we must...