@GoshisDead,
Quote:you may or may not be amazed at how many parents have almost outright accused me of abuse for my having the means to buy these things and not doing so. It seems I am damning the children to be different and not fit in
Not only that, but technology is not going to go away, kids need to be educated on how to make it work for them. To deprive them of the chance to learn is bad for them for sure, to teach that technology is bad for them is almost certainly also.
I have rarely seen any good to come from early childhood deprivation, be it technology, food, or trying to surround kids with only the "right" ideas or influences. People are going to be exposed to what was kept from them eventually, and for the same reason what ever it is is desired by many it is likely to be desired by the one who was deprived. Only the deprived one will not have learned to use it, will not have learned self control, will not have ever experienced the damage of too much and so will instinctively always want more.
Also, the socialization costs of deprivation are huge, as you mentioned. Unless your kids are going to grow up and join and anti technology cult not being fluent in technology will hurt them. It might interest you to know that even at the Yearning for Zion Ranch both the women and men get a lot of computer time, have the latest cell technology, and even have global positioning systems in their SUV's. They have made the decision that not doing technology is bad for their businesses, and that not teaching technology to their kids will set them back.