@Mame,
Mame wrote:
So, as some of you know, we're getting married in October. We're having both the ceremony and reception/party in a blues bar.
What I need help with is table centrepieces (I was thinking low bowls of fresh flowers - whatever is in season here) and should I do placecards, mix people up or let them sit where they want? I'm a pretty casual person and am not having a photographer or a bouquet, and am not planning on walking down any aisle. I just want everyone to have a good time.
Also, I am not having an updo, and am trying to find a nice dinner/cocktail dress which I can wear again. Alex will be in casual jacket and nice wool pants type of thing.
Anyway, what do you suggest/think?
simple table decs
place names - very simple, cheap as chips...errrr leaves... and a metallic marker to personalise
course, ima hearts and leaves sorta gal ...
re the seating... i'm sorta real uncomfortable with the whole forced-to-get-to-know-the-dinner-party-guests situations - i get you want the families and friends to mix but... ugh, when you have to talk to someone - i'd go with as little forcing as possible so everyone just has the best time <but that's just the way i am (half his and half hers on the tables) and just let everyone mix on the dance floor - they're coming to celebrate your evening wedding "do" and sometimes it's hard to talk over the table with relative strangers with loads of people in the room - i'd go with comfort for everyone for a few hours at a wedding party rather than a get-to-know-the-rest-of-the-family-occasion with-your-mouth-full-of food-and-drinking-a-few-bevvies whilst shouting speech-speech
oh, now, as you're not having a photographer... get a wee dispoable camera for each table and let your guests take the pics - send them off after or take them to the store and get them put on a CD/DVD - then, you don't need albums and whatnot (coz I know you're not a keepsakey sorta gal) but the relly's can all see the pics and ooooh and ahhhhhh (plus, you can post 'em on A2K and we can all oooooooh and ahhhhhhhh too
) - you can just copy the CD then and send them off to the wedding folks if they want to see the pics.
everyone will have a good time... how could they not!
cake.... cake... cake... where is the cake?????????
<ahhhh ... beautiful photo Mame of you and kiddo... see, you gotta have pics... really... please please please please please
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