Female reasoning is different from male reasoning. And female speech is coded differently than male speech. My consternation is because I don't understand why it's so important for me to agree with my wife's point of view. Particularly in light of the fact I have no clue how she got there. And I'm doubly confounded why just agreeing to go along so as not to create an argument is such an offense. My wife, and maybe others, wants to have mutually exclusive items true at the same time.