@rex b,
God gives people free will to live our lives the way we want..even with his followers.
There are consequences for sin. Some of those consequences result in Children and others going hungry and getting hurt etc.
What happens to the child that gets everything it wants? It becomes spoiled and selfish and unable to cope with life. God never said life was going to be fair. He never promised us we would get everything we wanted.
God does not need your Worship. He wants it. Those who know God and live for him want to worship him because they know who he really is and what he's capable of. They know he is love.
God does promise us that he wants to give his children good gifts;
Luke 11:10-13 (New International Version)
10 For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
11 "Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13 If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
What I know is that he gives me peace, because I ask him. God wants to bless you.
Many people feel like thay have been wronged by God in some manner and they hold it against him. I was one of those at one time. I lost 4 immediate family members from an accident and I held it against him for many years. I finally figured out all he wanted to do was help me and love me.. but I wouldnt let him.
Anger at God will do you no good, ever. You can be angry all you want and it will never be a help in time of need.
People are evil. They do what they want when they want like a spoiled child. When they can't have what they want they pout and scream and stomp thier feet. Everyone does it, I have. I didnt win though.
General Question for anyone:
Do you feel that God has hurt you? How has he disappointed you personally? Why did you feel it was his fault?