@housby,
Here's a suggestion I will throw into the mix. We have often debated whether we really see the stars, or only our image of stars (or any other objects). Therefore, it is argued, if there were no minds, there would be no objects. This, of course, is felt to be absurd, because it seems to mean that the universe itself has only come into being with the appearance of humans who are capable of conceiving it, whereas all science indicates that it predates us by many billions of years.
I think I have a way out of this impasse.
Ideas are not objects. When we say that objects exist as ideas for us, this does not mean that these ideas are 'in our minds'.The way in which the stars are depicted in our minds, cannot in itself be an object of perception. We are trying to picture the situation with the mind being in the brain, and the brain being in our skull. But this is not a real description of the nature of mind, or cognition, or perception, or consciousness. You can study these as objects, of course, but, as objects, they don't contain ANYTHING. They only contain stars (or trees or whatever) when they are alive
in you. And
what is alive in you is never available to consciousness. It is what makes consciousness possible. It is the ground of being, not one of the figures in it (be it depicted as mind, brain, consciousness, or anything else.)
Think about that for a while.